So you’ve read all the pick-up lines, you know that they’re not magic they are just to get your foot in the door. So now how do you go about picking her up?
Normally men find it difficult to approach girls with the intent of picking them up but if you go in feeling confident with the right skills you will find it’s not as hard as you previously thought!
Here are some great tips for Picking Up Girls
Be Cheery and Positive
Believing is half the battle, if you go in not believing you can do it then chances are you wont be able to do it. So remain positive and cheerful, a smile on your face will make the girl lower her guard to you and accept you more.
Use Good Opening Lines
The best opening lines just get her into conversation with you, try not to make them cheesy try to just go with anything that will get her to talk with you for a while!
Focus on What You Have
Normally when men are focusing on themselves they tend to pick out what they don’t have without commenting on what they do have. Have a sense of humor? Use it! Good listener? Listen! Just do whatever comes naturally to you, whilst trying not to brag. Bragging will just serve to make her think you are full of yourself.
So try to concentrate on your best qualities without going too far!
Get Her Talking
It is always a good idea to have her doing most of the talking, that way she leaves the conversation thinking you are a great guy who really cares for what she has to say. The best way to make her talk about herself is to keep asking insightful questions (family, job and hobbies are good things to ask her about). While she is talking always maintain eye contact and offer your opinion once in a while so that she feels she’s talking with you not just at you.
Make Her Laugh
Simply the best way to pick up women, when women are laughing they lower their inhibitions and allow you to get closer to her, so keep her laughing and keep increasing your chances of successfully seducing her.
Cut the Time Short
While the conversation is flowing is the best time to cut it off if you are trying to see her again. Leaving while it’s flowing will make her want to continue it at a later date giving you a great opening to get her number and meet up with her again on your terms!
